How to Meet New People in the New Year

If you want access to more single, like-minded people, the start of 2024 is the perfect time to embark on a journey of social discovery. Here's our guide on how to meet new people in the new year and make meaningful connections that may lead to love.

How to meet people in 2024

As 2024 unfolds, it brings with it a plethora of opportunities for personal growth. One of the most enriching experiences you can have, is meeting new people and January is a fantastic time for this. But for many of us, working out how to do it in the current climate is tricky, especially if you’d rather connect in person, rather than online.

However, digital forums remain an excellent way to research and source opportunities, even if the plan is to take you off the screen and into the real world. Sites like MeetUp and events listings are a great starting point to find out what’s happening in your region. Whether it's a community fair, a cultural festival, or a networking event, these occasions provide an excellent platform to interact with people from all walks of life. Perhaps make a New Year’s resolution that you’ll attend at least one event each month to broaden your social horizons.

How to meet someone in real life

It may be you have a host of acquaintances you can chat with on social media or via chat rooms, but when it comes to having face-to-face time IRL, you’re lacking. Begin with the easiest route — your work. Look out for functions, conferences, drinks gatherings and events that you can attend.

Building connections within your industry can open doors to fresh collaborations and widen your social circle. While you certainly don’t want to be hitting on anyone during the workday or within your team, expanding your network is bound to lead to more social invites coming your way. And you may well encounter some suitable singles who are far enough removed from your day-to-day work activities to be considered for a date.

How do you meet new people by yourself?

Working from home, freelancing and being self-employed can leave you out in the cold when it comes to work connections. And with lots of relationships beginning as a result of workplace-related networking, you may have to put a little more effort into meeting people, than your office-based counterparts.

So, if you’re flying solo, volunteering is a great way to actively engage with others. Volunteering not only allows you to contribute to a cause you care about but also introduces you to a diverse group of individuals who share your commitment to making a difference, so it’s a win-win. Check out local organisations or Google volunteering sites that post national and local opportunities.

Where to meet people to date

Consider taking classes or workshops in areas that interest you. Whether it's learning a new language, honing a skill, or attending personal development workshops, these environments foster interaction and provide opportunities to connect with others who share your curiosity and desire for growth.

Enrolling in clubs or classes related to your hobbies or passions is a fantastic way to meet like-minded individuals too. Whether it's a fitness session, art workshop, or book group, shared interests create a natural foundation for meaningful connections. Look for activities that genuinely pique your interest and you'll likely find others who share your enthusiasm — a great way to bond.

Where can I find good people to date?

Maybe you find it’s easy enough to meet people, but it’s finding the right people that’s causing the issue. Each of us is unique with differing priorities, tastes and preferences; what constitutes “good” for one may not work for another.

So if you’re just not finding the calibre of singles you’d like, why not try speed dating? It requires the least effort on your part in comparison to any of the other options we’ve covered and as everyone attending has to pay a fee, you know they’re all serious about meeting someone. Our events hold the most appeal for professional people and are arranged according to age and location, so we do a lot of the filtering process on your behalf.

How to meet someone organically

If the thought of intentionally going out to meet singles gives you the ick, you’re not alone. Those with a low cringe threshold may find it excruciating to put themselves out there. But Sometimes, meeting new people is as simple as being open and approachable. Smile, make eye contact, and be willing to initiate conversations. Don't be afraid to introduce yourself to someone new (it may take baby steps, some practice and a few mantras to get you in the zone). A friendly demeanour goes a long way in creating a positive and inviting atmosphere.

As this year unfolds, make a commitment to enriching your life by meeting new people. Whether through local events, clubs, volunteering, digital platforms, or personal development pursuits, there are countless avenues to forge exciting connections. Step out of your comfort zone, be open to new experiences, and watch as the tapestry of your social life becomes even more vibrant in 2024.

Related Questions

How do you casually meet new people?
Consider joining social groups or clubs where you can meet people who share similar interests. Shared activities can provide a natural context for social interaction and provide a point of focus, so it’s not all about the meeting aspect.

Where can I go to socialise?
If you want to purely socialise, rather than combining it with a hobby or special interest, choose events designed for this. Check out local MeetUp groups, attend singles events and look out for invites to parties or functions.

How do you fix social anxiety?
Try gradually exposing yourself to social situations and challenge any negative thoughts you may have about the prospect. It can help to prepare with mindfulness techniques, then to set some realistic goals to work towards. If this feels too overwhelming, a talking therapy like CBT can be very useful.